Challenges Faced by a Lineman and His Family
A lineman describes how his demanding and often unpredictable schedule is straining his marriage. His wife accused him of abandoning the family after a week of storm response work.
Family Background and Work Schedule
He and his wife share two sons, aged seven and two. The man earns approximately $130,000 annually as a lineman, working about 50 hours per week. His wife works remotely as a therapist, bringing in roughly $40,000 and working around 30 hours from home.
Impact of Storm Response Work
He estimates 5–10 "crisis" weeks each year, often involving extended shifts after weather events. Recently, he drove five hours to respond to a major storm and then worked 15-hour days from Sunday to Thursday, returning home exhausted.
Family Tensions and Confrontation
After a 14-hour sleep, his wife confronted him, accusing him of abandoning the family and calling him manipulative when he pointed out his income supports their lifestyle. An argument ensued, highlighting differing perspectives on work and contributions.
Financial and Career Considerations
The lineman emphasizes that ...